It was late, and I was railing in my chair in the living room, watching a cricket match. She walked down the stairs, smiled at me and continued to the kitchen. As I tried to decipher the strategy of the bowling captain, she finished drinking her water and returned to sit down on the sofa next to me.
“Are they winning it?” She enquired, in a soft voice, trying not to disturb others’ sleep.
She never liked cricket, I knew. “It is tough, but with Narain on the crease, anything is possible.” I said, before turning towards her, “Is Avani asleep?”
“Yeah,” She sighed.
“It’s great that you could make it for the get together. Now that you have a daughter of your own, I’m sure you understand how much I miss you girls.” I grinned.
A hint of irritation fluttered on her eyebrows. “How do you manage to do that?”
“Do what?” I shrugged playfully.
“Say something as serious as that so casually?”
“Side effects of aging!”
She smiled and shook her head.
We shared a moment of silence, filled by the TV commentary.
“Oh… I wanted to ask you, how is Saurabh?”
“He’s fine.” She dismissed my question.
“How often do you guys meet?” I prodded.
“We don’t meet anymore.”
She was never the one to share the details with her parents. Whatever happened, she braced through it on her own. I got to know the details later, from her cousins.
“It’s just that we need to work some things out. Maybe. I don’t know.” She laughed, nervously.
“I see. But I thought you liked him? I mean, I was half expecting him to be here with us.”
She sighed under the weight of expectations. Mine and her own too, probably.
“I don’t know, I guess I’m scared. What if this too turns out to be a heartbreak?”
I grinned again, and turned towards her. “Oh, look at you! You’re all serious!”
She didn’t find it funny. She stared blankly at the TV, clearly unaware of what was going on on the screen.
I curbed my humour and turned serious. “The best way to find out the answer, is to ask the question to him.”
She looked down in her laps and shrugged. “I’m tired, Appa. I don’t think I have it in me anymore to bear another heartbreak. I’d rather go without anybody. Anyway, now with Avani and all…”
“You know, Life is weird,” I interrupted her and looked away. I hated how hopeless life could be. “But you are a careerist women, so check if this makes it simpler for you:
“If you want to achieve something, you have to be ready to fail at it first. If you want to be happy, you have to risk unhappiness. If you want to smile about something, you have to accept the chances of its tears too. That’s the nature of emotions. Either all of them come together, or none at all.
“There is nothing to be scared about heartbreaks. Everyone cries, wipes their tears, and then smiles, with a new hope.
“The scary part comes later. It is when you stop feeling anything at all… because you’re tired of being heartbroken. How easily we forget, that no matter how hard it may be, but we have a choice. Either go numb, or take the risk of being vulnerable, once again.
Choosing numbness is easier, because you know that you won’t be heartbroken for sure. But it is just as sure that you won’t be really happy either. Sometimes it is too late by the time you realise the second part.
Build the strength to risk your heart. For only with a chance of failure, comes the chance of success. May you never stop yourself from feeling emotions.”